Ten year old James loved and admired his 20 year old brother, Chux_ so much so that tried to copy Chux in almost every way.
James brushed his hair like Chux walked, and talked like him too. He felt better about himself when he acted like Chux. Sometimes James would get discouraged because he didn't feel good enough in many ways.
He couldn't run as fast as well as Chux, he couldn't play the piano, he couldn't drive a car or have a bunch of cool friends to hang out with. Not yet anyway.
When Chux took time with James, it made James feel happy, and gave him the desire to be with Chux even more so he could one day be just like him.
What do you see in James that is most like yourself in Chux.